I love everything about the movies- using the
touch-screen device to buy tickets, all of the snacks, the display of “coming
attractions,” and that exciting feeling you have when the lights go down. You
grab a shovel-sized handful of popcorn in anticipation. The movie’s starting!
I can’t forget my very first movie. I was seven, and
my biggest desire, even more than world peace, a Barbie stereo, and the latest
Britney Spears CD, was to see Lilo and Stitch. My mom agreed to take me
and my sisters to the matinee.
I loved the movie. It was sweet, funny, and it
introduced the new idea of suspense to me. According to a favorite
family story, when Lilo tentatively opens the door in one scene, I shouted,
“Don’t go through the door!” to the amusement of all of the other members of
the audience.
This experience forever changed me. It taught me
manners (don’t kick someone else’s chair or shout suggestions out to the
characters on the screen- it stops being cute at seven-and-a-half), basic math
(if Katie has two dollars, and popcorn and a drink costs sixteen dollars, how
long will she have to wait until dinner?), and of course, how to locate the
nearest exits in the event of an emergency. I’ve also found that when movies
bring people closer together. When times are tough, nothing sounds better than
a family’s laughter.
That’s what makes movies great. Life is hard and
boring and tragically fresh out of musical numbers. When students are eating in
the cafeteria, they generally don’t begin a dance choreographed by Kenny
Ortega. We don’t keep aliens that crash landed in Hawaii. We don’t see dead
people. We don’t fly. Wardrobes don’t have awesome places with talking animals
and Turkish Delight on the other side- just boring coats and that scarf your
aunt made that no one will buy from you.
But it sure would be cool if we did, wouldn’t it?
And that’s what movies are about- giving us an escape from our daily lives. The
directors, producers, and cinematographers invite us into a world full of
people with big dreams, challenges to overcome, and perfect hair days.
Movies invest themselves in us. We end up rooting
for the football team who, at the beginning of the movie, couldn’t hold the
ball correctly. We’re heartbroken when the main character gets engaged to James
Marsden, instead of her one true love, Ryan Gosling. We cheer when Inigo
Montoya’s father’s death is avenged, and the a cappella group wins the
championship, despite one girl who’d rather be doing anything else, one serial
barfer, and one closet mermaid dancer.
I give movies the same rule I give people:
Every movie has potential. It’s what movies do with
that potential that determines where they go from there.
When I say that, I don’t necessarily mean
“award-winning material.” Sometimes movies win awards, and people are sitting
watching the Oscars who didn’t like them at all. Even more often, movies don’t
win those awards, even though they should, because it was heart-wrenching and
inspiring and featured Vikings, cool accents, and the training of dragons.
But awards aren’t the only recognition movies
receive. It’s the viewer’s vote that truly counts. To be perfectly honest, when
my mom and I are watching one of our favorite movies, we’re not really
concerned with the fact that Amanda Seyfried didn’t win an award for predicting
that there was a thirty percent chance that it was already raining. We aren’t
outraged that no one gave Whoopi Goldberg a Golden Globe in her classic 1992
film, though she completely transformed a cloister of pitchy nuns from an inner-city church
into a flawless worldwide phenomenon. We don’t call the Academy and tell them
that they forgot to include Reese Witherspoon as a nominee, every time we see
her try to get into Harvard Law School.
That’s a perfect example of how people can disagree
over movies. We’re all different, and entitled to our own opinions. A saga
telling the story of a moody girl falling in love with a sparkly blood sucker
unwilling to wash his hair could truly fascinate me, but it could crush my
friend Ashley’s soul. Ashley’s soul could feel instantly revived through an
animated film about a fish traveling across the ocean to find his son, but I
could feel personally offended that someone would create a film where fish can
talk. Despite the fact that we will never see eye to eye on this topic, we will
hopefully respect one another’s opinion and agree to disagree (that is, except
for Ashley and me- I know I’m right on this one).
I don’t believe that all movies are filled with
mindless violence or the misogynistic treatment of women or boys eating worms
in order to avoid people stuffing them in their pants. Movies can be works of
art that help us think about things in new ways. They can show us great
examples of strength, bravery, and honor, when we don’t have those in our
lives. When we don’t know what our college major will be, or what to do after
parents get divorced, or how to recover from heartbreak, movies can inspire us to keep going, and pursue the right path.
Going to movies doesn’t solve our problems. But it
does give us a few things we’ll need to solve them- time to get away from them
for a little while, time to laugh and cry and smile, and time with people who
love and care about you.
And let’s not forget a great musical number.
P.S. See if you can guess the number of movie
references in this blog entry (directly mentioning Lilo and Stitch doesn’t count). Write down your guesses in the
comment section below (shout out to Anne Hartman, who always reads this blog).